Here is a list of helpful websites and books:
http://modernalternativemama.com/- although I do not agree with all of Kate's views, her financial section is in line with what Cody and I believe.
http://www.todaysnest.com/files/cashenvelopes-1.pdf- free printable budget envelopes with ledgers
http://manvsdebt.com/#infform_id0_h423_w625 -great philosophy of finding what's important in your life and purposefully making it happen
http://nomadbaby.com/-Man v. Debt's wife's blog
